Spiritual guidelines - By bike – a family sacral route
Jesus called them together and said: “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and
their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become
great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— just as
the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
(Mt 20: 25-28)
When St. Francis decided to dedicate his life completely to God and live the gospel radically, he did
not initially expect anyone to join him, even a little surprised, but seeing in which direction God
wanted to lead his life, he soon exclaimed joyfully: “The Lord has given me brothers!” He recognized
in the newcomers the gift of God, the fraternal life of the Franciscan community and today they
consider it extremely important and fundamental to their charism. Often, we speak of Franciscan
communities as a Franciscan family. If we look at our own families as well, we can notice that no
matter how much we may have been planning, choosing or been open, our own family is still a
surprise to us, its members by type and number are something we should consider as gift.
Unfortunately, every real family has its difficulties, sometimes they can be painful and challenging.
What kept Francis' large family together?
While obtaining papal permission to permanently grant complete forgiveness in the small church of
Porziuncola, St. Francis exclaimed to the gathered people and to his brothers: “I want to send you all
to heaven!”. St. Francis understood that God had a special plan with each of his brothers and even
with his entire order, even when things began to unfold during his lifetime that he himself did not
expect or want. St. Francis, although he was the spiritual father of his large family, still considered
himself simply a little brother to everyone. He took Jesus' call to repair his Church seriously, and thus
the whole world. Church - that's us. The church is also our immediate family. We need to start from
our hearts. Jesus, gentle and humble of heart, make our hearts according to your heart!
Do we experience our own family as a gift? Do we allow each member to live the fullness of her/his
mission? Do we always look selflessly at the true kindness of others? When we want to change
something within our family, do we start from ourselves first?